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All the leaves have gone

It is my favorite season, time to harvest and prepare for Winter. I always look forward to it, but this has been a particularly challenging Autumn.

I found out my grandmother's brother in Ukraine died tragically in a fire today as he sat beside the stove for warmth. He survived the Holodomor, WWII, Siberia, and the Soviet Union. He was reunited with my grandmother when she returned to Ukraine in the 90s for her first visit since leaving in the 40s. They corresponded by letter and rare phone calls when he would go to a neighbor's house to use the telephone. My grandmother sent photos of her children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren. He was a widower, never had children, and lived alone.

I always hoped that I would meet him on a future visit to Ukraine. I worry about what this may do to my grandmother. I know that it's a gift that she's still here. Incredible that all of my grandparents are still alive, in their 80s and 90s. (knock on wood)

The elders are dying, their stories die with them. I hope that my great-uncle had someone to talk to, someone to listen to him. It hurts my heart to think that he died in such a way. Alone.

Life is so fragile. So much dies in Autumn.


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shveta_thakrar
Oct. 19th, 2011 12:00 am (UTC)
I'm so sorry, Valya. :(

<3
valya_dl
Oct. 19th, 2011 02:21 am (UTC)
Thank you, Shveta.
xxo
trillian_stars
Oct. 19th, 2011 03:57 am (UTC)
I'm so sorry to hear this, Valya. Sad, sad news. I'm thinking of you and your grandmother.

xxx
valya_dl
Oct. 21st, 2011 10:22 pm (UTC)
Thank you, Trillian. xxo
spacedlaw
Oct. 19th, 2011 05:43 am (UTC)
Hugs. They (we) all die but that is rather tragic, indeed. and ironic after all the dangers he went through.
More hugs.
valya_dl
Oct. 21st, 2011 10:23 pm (UTC)
xo
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